tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9734257.post1129106327156800677..comments2010-11-23T20:09:22.433-08:00Adminhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13312421033720261560noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9734257.post-35543131076242253032010-11-23T20:09:22.433-08:002010-11-23T20:09:22.433-08:00Hi! Sometimes, I ask myself why it is easier to advise other people when we are not in their situation. Maybe because there are some things that that person sees and you do not because you are involved emotionally. It is your life after all. But I guess we are all entitled to our own opinion. <br /><br />I can feel that you love that person dearly and we are constantly hunted by the thought of unconditional love. But isn&#39;t it that we should love ourselves first? Because if we are not whole (all the negative things he is giving you and making you feel), how can you give to other people? Think about it. Does all the negative things he accused you of are true? Can you accept that and willing to change for the relationship to work? Or he is just making those things to make you feel down? If he is constantly getting the habit, then I prefer that you deserve a lot better. <br /><br />I myself is a newbie in blogging world and trying to reach out to other people. Hope I made you see some angle that you haven&#39;t consider yet. May God Bless you in your decisions.zarahgbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02325291783497591451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9734257.post-9432206225005444952009-12-02T17:12:36.698-08:002009-12-02T17:12:36.698-08:00Maria,<br /> I will send feel-good vibes your way. I intend you the best in life, whatever that path turns out to be for you.<br /><br /> You were/are the very first blogger I basically knew about when I got my start, way back in June of 2006. I almost feel like we &quot;grew up&quot; together in the blogging sense :)<br /><br /> No matter what happens, just realize you have friends out here that want the best for you, and will do what it takes to help you get there.<br /><br /> Reading the post gives me an idea. We should team up and create an audio like the other ones, but focusing on getting the best out of our relationships. Relationships, in my mind, are like the &quot;currency&quot; of spirit.<br /><br />Does that make sense?Bill Perryhttp://www.twitter.com/WilliamRPerrynoreply@blogger.com